Hi,
I am back after a long break,I was busy learning new lessons of life from young teacher.
Vaccination @ pediatrician's clinic was the place wherein I learnt one more lesson of life. I had taken my baby for her vaccination, she was happy and playful with everyone around. But only till she was given a shot. That unexpected pinch made her cry loud. She, being smart enough, realized that doc was the culprit, the way she looked at him hinted that very well.
As she cried,doc tried to divert her mind. He smiled at her, gave a few toys and she smiled back to him, forgetting that it was doc who gave her shot a few seconds back.
Do we adults forgive someone who gave us pain, hurt so easily? A big no for most of us. We never let ourselves forget that, even if time heals the wounds, we just carry with us that hatred on our mind. Why? Any answer? Agreed that its possible that someone hurt where it hurts the most but does carrying anger, ....or any negative feelings in mind affect that person, the culprit? No, unless it shows in your behaviour? Does it affect you? YES. Those hard feelings for someone makes everything around unpleasant for you. So who is finally being affected by holding grievances. I would rather say that you are more guilty than that person then as he just made few moments bad, but we are extending it to days, months, years....
Am I Wrong???
I will permit no man to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him.
Hating people is like burning down your own house to get rid of a rat.
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